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The Duke and Duchess of Sussex have finally welcomed their first child, a son, in the early hours of this morning and thoughts have already turned to who the new arrival’s godparents might be.
In reality, the names are likely to have been discussed and chosen by Prince Harry, 34, and Meghan, 37, long before Baby Sussex arrived.
In the past, royal offspring have been given as many as six godparents – with the public only finding out who they are on the day of a christening.
None of the above has stopped the rumour-mill swirling, with some suggesting that the couple could well double-up and choose individuals who are already trusted godparents to the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge‘s children.
So, who’s in the running for the prestigious role that lasts a lifetime and will see them charged with mentoring one of the most famous humans on the planet?
From flame-haired Mark Dyer, who helped Prince Harry after the death of his mother, to US fashion designer Misha Nonoo, who is rumoured to have introduced the couple, here Femail reveals the runners and riders when it comes to the coveted role.
ON MEGHAN’S SIDE
THE BFF: Jessica Mulroney
Among those closest to the Duke and Duchess of Sussex who could be named godparents of their first child, is Meghan’s best friend and unofficial stylist Jessica Mulroney (pictured)
Jessica Mulroney (pictured at Meghan and Harry’s wedding) who is married to Canadian TV host Benedict Mulroney, had her four-year-old daughter, Isabel Veronica chosen to be a flower girl at the royal wedding
Widely thought of as Meghan’s BFF – and unofficial stylist – Jessica Mulroney is a clear frontrunner, although her US location means she’d be a godparent from afar.
The American stylist, a mother-of-three married to Canadian TV host Ben Mulroney, is so close to the Duchess that her four-year-old daughter, Ivy, was a flower girl at the royal wedding.
Her seven-year-old brothers John and Brian had the honour of being page boys.
The 39-year-old, who divides her time between Toronto and New York, where she works for Good Morning America as a fashion contributor, even has photos of the royal wedding in her home, with the stylish black-and-white snaps revealed in a video she posted last year.
THE STYLIST FRIEND: Misha Nonoo
Misha Nonoo (pictured on holiday with Benita Litt and Meghan) has maintained her close friendship with Meghan since she married Prince Harry, despite being predominately based in New York
Misha (pictured at the Met Gala) who was the creative mind behind the t-shirt the Duchess of Sussex wore for her first public outing with the Prince, was once rumored to have been the matchmaker behind the royal romance
Despite being predominately based in New York, fashion designer Misha has maintained a close friendship with the Duchess.
She was the creative mind behind the t-shirt the Duchess of Sussex wore for her first public outing with the Prince at the Invictus Games in Toronto in September 2017, and was at one point thought to be the matchmaker behind their royal romance.
The pair also go way back; prior to joining the royal family Meghan enjoyed regular holidays with Misha and her best male friend Markus Anderson.
THE MOTHER OF MEGHAN’S GODCHILDREN: Benita Litt
Benita Litt (pictured left at the Royal wedding with Meghan’s mother Doria) is the mother of Meghan’s godchildren Remi and Rylan Litt
Benita (pictured at the royal wedding with Remi Litt) who is a former entertainment lawyer, has solidified her friendship with Meghan with a holiday and even spending Christmas together
If Meghan decides a reciprocal godparenting arrangement might be best, then she may well look to the mother of her own godchildren.
Benita Litt, mother to Remi and Rylan Litt, was spotted close to Meghan’s mother Doria at the royal wedding with the pair clearly delighted to be representing the Duchess’s side of the family.
A former entertainment lawyer, high-flying Benita has previously been on holiday with the royal – and if you needed any further proof of their solid friendship, the pair also spent Christmas 2016 together.
THE UNIVERSITY PAL: Lindsay Roth
Lindsay Roth (pictured with Meghan) is one of her oldest friends and a fellow alumni from Meghan’s time spent studying literature at Northwestern
Lindsay (pictured at Meghan’s baby shower) who is now a successful TV producer, chose Meghan to serve as her maid of honour at her wedding in 2016
Keeper of some of the Duchess’ oldest secrets, Lindsay Roth is a fellow alumni from Northwestern University in Illinois, where the pair bonded in an English literature class studying Toni Morrison’s works.
Now a successful TV producer and author, Lindsay has already bestowed a role on Meghan, choosing her to serve as her maid of honour at her wedding in 2016.
THE FAMOUS FRIEND: Serena Williams
Tennis icon Serena Williams (pictured centre in New York) has remained close friends with the Duchess of Sussex since the pair first met in 2010
Serena (pictured with Meghan backstage at a fashion debut) was one of the Duchess’s close friends involved in the process of organising her New York baby shower
Reports have suggested that Serena Williams (pictured in New York) has been a source for Meghan to confide in over trolling
Tennis icon Serena Williams has remained close friends with Meghan since the pair first met in 2010 at the Super Bowl in Miami, Florida.
Meghan previously wrote about their friendship on her lifestyle blog, The Tig, saying the pair had found an instant affection.
‘We hit it off immediately,’ she said. ‘Taking pictures, laughing through the flag football game we were both playing in, and chatting not about tennis or acting, but about all the good old fashioned girly stuff.’
The sportswoman, 37, was one of the pals involved in organising her baby shower in New York – and admitted that she’d pulled out all the stops to make it perfect for her pal.
She told Business of Fashion: ‘Planning something like that takes a lot of effort. I’m a perfectionist, so I’m like, “Let’s make it perfect”.‘
Serena was a guest at St George’s Chapel Windsor when Meghan married Prince Harry last May, and was one of the close friends invited to their more ‘intimate’ evening do for 200 friends.
Human rights lawyer Amal Clooney, 41, seen with George in March, attended Harry and Meghan’s wedding. Amal was also in attendance of the Duchess’s New York baby shower
Human rights lawyer Amal Clooney, 41, and her husband George, 57, were in attendance at Prince Harry and Meghan’s wedding.
The mother of twins, who developed a friendship with the duchess during her transition to London, are connected through celebrity hair stylist Miguel Perez.
According to Elle, Meghan has been relying on Amal’s advice for coping with being in the public eye.
Amal and her husband are part of the well-heeled set of Berkshire-based celebrities who live close to Harry and Meghan’s new home at Frogmore Cottage.
Their sprawling home is just a 30-minute drive from Windsor and the couples are said to socialise regularly.
Harry and Meghan also spent a few days with the Clooneys at their 18th century Villa Oleandra in Lake Como in August 2018, relaxing by the pool and playing basketball.
THE MUTUAL FRIEND: Violet von Westenholz
Violet von Westenholz (pictured second from right) is a childhood friend of Harry’s and speculated to have been involved in Harry and Meghan’s first meeting
Chums: Violet met Meghan through her PR job at Ralph Lauren (pictured at The Polo Ralph Lauren VIP Suite at the 2016 Wimbledon Championships)
Violet von Westenholz, 33, is the daughter of former Olympic skier Baron Piers von Westenholz, who is a close personal friend of Harry’s father, the Prince of Wales.
She was also a childhood friend of Harry’s and met with Meghan while working as a press relations director for Ralph Lauren.
She was seen chatting with Meghan at Wimbeldon just days before her blind date with Prince Harry in July 2016, prompting speculation that she had set the couple up.
However, it’s since been revealed that the royal matchmaker was designer Misha Nonoo.
THE LA CONFIDANTE: Heather Dorak
Meghan’s close friend Heather Dorak (pictured) developed a close friendship with the duchess during the time she spent attending her Pilates classes as an actress in LA
Meghan’s close friend Heather Dorak was not at her baby shower – presumably because she had given birth to her own child only days earlier.
The duchess developed a close friendship with Heather during the time she spent attending her Pilates classes when she was an actress in LA.
Meghan has often gushed about being inspired by Heather who was a guest at her wedding to Harry.
On Harry’s side
THE SECOND FATHER: Mark Dyer
Mark Dyer (pictured with Harry) has been described as a ‘second father’ to Prince Harry following his mother Princess Diana’s death
Mark Dyer has been noted as a ‘second father’ to Prince Harry throughout his upbringing and a mentor alongside the royal’s former nanny Tiggy Legge-Bourke.
Cheltenham College educated Dyer, known as Marko to friends, became a steadying big brother figure to the princes in the mid-Nineties when he worked as an equerry to the Prince of Wales for 18 months.
Prince Charles appointed Dyer to keep an eye on his sons, and he was brought in as a male counterpart to former royal nanny Tiggy Legge-Bourke.
During the first half term after Diana’s death, when the boys would have been with their mother, Prince Charles was committed to a five day visit to Africa.
Marks’s (pictured left with Jack Brooksbank at the wedding last year) son Jasper who is Prince Harry’s godson, played a significant role in the royal wedding
He took Harry along and while the Prince carried out engagements, Harry went off on safari in Botswana, organised by Mark.
From then on he was a key guiding figure as Harry and William tried to come to terms with the loss of their mother.
After his spell as an employee to the Prince ended he remained a mentor to Harry.
In 2009 Mark founded the management company MDM Bars and Pubs and runs two pubs The Sand’s End and The Brown Cow, in south-west London which both became haunts of Prince Harry.
Mark’s six-year-old son Jasper, who is Prince Harry’s godson, was chosen as a page boy for the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s wedding.
THE FAMILY MEMBER: Mike and Zara Tindall
Harry is godfather to Lena Tindall, the younger daughter of his cousin Zara and Mike Tindall (pictured at the Copper Box)
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex attended the christening of Mike and Zara Tindall’s daughter Lena, earlier this year
Harry has shared a close bond with his cousin Zara Tindall since childhood.
Back when Zara had a tongue piercing and Harry was known for his wild nights out, the pair were known as the ‘fun’ royal rebels.
However, their friendship has endured now they are both settled down and in their 30s.
Indeed, it’s Harry who is said to be responsible for Zara’s happy marriage to Mike Tindall after introducing the pair at Manly Wharf Hotel in Sydney in 2003, during the Rugby World Cup.
Zara and Mike chose Prince Harry to be godfather to their second daughter, Lena, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex attended her christening in March at St Nicholas Church in Cherington, Gloucestershire.
THE FATHER OF HARRY’S GODCHILD: Jake Warren
Jake Warren and his wife Zoe had their daughter Zali, who is one of Prince Harry’s godchildren, attended their wedding (Harry and Jake pictured together at Royal Ascot in 2014)
Jake Warren and his wife Zoe attended the couple’s wedding, and their daughter Zalie – who is one of Prince Harry’s godchildren – was chosen to be a flower girl.
The godson of Princess Diana, Jake grew up alongside Prince Harry and has often been spotted with him at events including Ascot.
The Warren family are closely connected to the royals through horse-racing. Jake’s father John Warren is the Queen’s racing manager.
The father-and-son team run Highclere Stud in Newbury together.
THE CLOSE MATE: Nicholas Van Cutsem
The Duke of Sussex chose three-year-old Florence, the daughter of Nicholas and Alice Van Cutsem (pictured in 2009), as a flower girl for his wedding to Meghan
Major Nicholas van Cutsem, a major with the Household Cavalry’s Life Guards, has been a friend of Harry and William’s since childhood.
He had an important role in the 2011 wedding when he escorted William and Kate along the procession route in London in a 1902 State Landau after their wedding at Westminster Abbey.
The Duke of Sussex chose three-year-old Florence, the daughter of Nicholas and his wife Alice Van Cutsem, as a flower girl for his wedding to Meghan.
Prince Harry, who has known Nicholas and Alice for several years, is Florence’s godfather.
THE BELOVED FORMER NANNY: Tiggy Pettifer
The Duke of Sussex is godfather to his former nanny’s son Tom Pettifer (pictured with Tiggy). His mother Tiggy Pettifer who was a personal assistant to Prince Harry throughout his childhood
Tiggy Pettifer – better known as Tiggy Legge-Bourke – was famously Harry and William’s long-term nanny in their formative years.
A constant by the princes’ side while they were growing up, Tiggy has remained close to both the royals over the years, and met Meghan before they married.
The Duke of Sussex is godfather to Tiggy’s son Tom Pettifer, who was pictured with Tiggy at the royal wedding.
THE PREP SCHOOL FRIEND: Charlie Van Straubenzee
Charlie Van Straubenzee (pictured with his wife Daisy) became a close friend of Prince Harry and Prince William during their time at Ludgrove Prep School in Berkshire
Charlie Van Straubenzee became a close friend to Prince Harry and Prince William during their time at Ludgrove Prep School in Berkshire, and was chosen to be an usher at Harry’s wedding.
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex attended Charlie’s wedding in Surrey just months after their own ceremony.
The Windsors and van Straubenzees have known each other since they were at Prep school together and are close friends.
Charlie’s older brother Thomas is Princess Charlotte’s godfather.
Harry has visited the family home in Cornwall almost every summer since he was a child.
THE SPEECH WRITER: Tom Inskip
Tom Inskip (pictured with his wife Lara attending the Royal wedding) was involved in writing Prince William’s speech for the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s wedding
Tom ‘Skippy’ Inskip and sister Victoria — ‘Tor’ to her friends — have known Princes William and Harry since childhood. The Inskips were regulars at Club H, the ‘nightclub’ William and Harry set up in the basement of Highgrove.
Tom attended Eton with Harry and co-owns a race horse with him called Usain Colt.
He later became known for being by Harry’s side whenever he got into scrapes, such as his infamous trip to Las Vegas in 2012, when the prince was photographed naked during a game of ‘strip billiards’.
But he’s been leading a more settled life since marrying flame-haired literary agent the Hon Lara Hughes-Young in Jamaica in 2017.
Harry and Meghan flew to Jamaica to attend Tom’s wedding, where the Prince was an usher.
Tom was a guest at the royal wedding in May 2018, and reportedly helped Prince William write a speech.
How the tradition of godparents work in royal circles
Although godparents are traditionally not family relatives, Prince Harry counts Prince Andrew and Princess Diana’s cousin, Lady Celia Vestey among his own godparents.
The Duke of Sussex has been chosen to be godfather to a number of society children including the six-year-old son of Mark and Amanda Dyer, Jasper and Zalie Warren who is the daughter of Zoe and Jake Warren.
Prince Harry is also godfather to the eldest son of his former nanny Tiggy Legge-Bourke, Frederick Pettifer.
Although the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s wedding and bridal shower proved to be star-studded affairs, traditionally Royal christenings are private occasions.
Nicholas Van Cutsem (pictured) who is a godparent to the Duke of Cambridge’s son Prince Louis, chose Prince Harry to be a godparent to his daughter Florence
The historic events are an opportunity for the entire Royal family to celebrate the child’s birth.
Christenings of royal children usually feature just a brief glimpse of the newborn to the public.
The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge asked six people to be godparents to their youngest child, including Kate’s cousin Lucy Middleton and her school friend Hannah Carter.
Among Prince William’s Etonian friends Harry Aubrey-Fletcher and the wife of James Meade, Lady Laura Meade were selected.
The Duke of Cambridge also asked his old friend Nicholas Van Cutsem to be a godparent to Prince Louis who was christened at 11-weeks old.
The young royal’s sixth godparent is nightclub owner Guy Pelly.
Kate and William chose not to have any members of the royal family as godparents for their second child, Princess Charlotte.
The couple also broke royal protocol with the christening of their first child Prince George, by choosing not to have the ceremony at Buckingham Palace.
Other royal traditions that the Duke and Duchess of Sussex may choose to incorporate into the christening of their new born include wearing the royal christening gown and using holy water from the River Jordan.